Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Question about my husband/marriage!?
My husband is a emt, he works 2 24hrs out of the week, and also works with our local ems running calls (when he's on call) Here's the thing, he runs his calls plus other members calls, it gets quite aggrevating, I fuss at him about it alot, b/c he will just leave me at the drop of a hat w/our 2 girls, and take off on a call, even if he's not on call, I fuss at him, and tell him i wish he cared about our family as much as he cared about his calls, and his job. It is breaking my heart, he tells me the other day that he wants divorce, and then when i get serious about it and tell him i will call right now and set up and appointment for a free consultation w/a lawyer, he gets mad at me and says y do you want a divorce, but here's the other catch, he hasn't done anything with me, but like twice in 12 days, He picked me out a cute little lingerie outfit, I wear it and he don't come to bed until 4 am, he didn't even touch me, after he picked out the outfit, and all! He acts like he could care less, and yes i complain alot about him going on calls and different things, for instance he has to work on christmas eve with the main company he works with, and that has got me totally upset! Why wouldn't he be doing anything w/me? Do you all think he's cheating? I mean he has a phone and doesn't even keep minutes on it, it's prepaid, if he was wouldn't he keep minutes on it to talk w/that person, and i mean he's home when he's not working, its not like he's staying out when he's not working, I'm just worried i feel like he's cheating, and also he tells me the reason he stays on the ambulance or at work is so he doesn't have to hear my bickering, and that really hurts! Im just concerned what should i do? how can i handle an emts' job? then he hugs me the other night and says you know i love you, i just don't understand y you fuss everytime i run a call, or when i work? idk anymore, im just confused about the part especially w/not doing anything w/me? I'm heartbroken please give me some advice?
Posted by Max Crittendon at 1:26 PM